The Thing about Influence
Speed-limit signs are not suggestions. Of course, there are still people who drive much faster or slower than posted speeds.
On the other hand, conversations with family members and friends about road conditions are suggestions. They are rarely about control. For example, when we drive to a family member's house we would most likely caution them about any dangerous road conditions we encountered. And more often than not, this advice is met with heartfelt thanks.
The relationships, connection, and genuine care we have for others is more of an influence than a speed limit sign (or email) could ever hope to be.
And so it is with leadership.
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